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How it works

Profile once. A private report for every match.

You answer the questionnaire one time – intimacy first. Then, for each person you are seriously considering, you link profiles with consent on both sides and receive a report on that pair. It is built to give you clarity before you say yes.

The three steps

From first question to a clear report

There is no matchmaking and no chat between strangers. NikkahNight does not introduce anyone: you bring the person you are considering, we help the two of you see where you align and where you differ.

  1. Start your profile

    Take the questionnaire once – 25 to 30 minutes. It starts with intimacy, then covers expectations, family, finances and faith. Mark what matters most to you. €29 per person.

  2. Add a match

    Invite the person you’re considering. They create their own profile, and both of you must agree to the match. Either of you can end it at any time.

  3. Get a report per match

    Each match produces a report for that specific pair, intimacy first. Your first match is free; each additional match is €15, paid by the person who asks for it.

Where it starts

Intimacy comes first – asked with adab.

The questionnaire opens with its largest section: intimacy and physical closeness within marriage. It is the topic people most often leave undiscussed, and where unspoken expectations hurt most. The questions use modest, respectful, non-graphic language, and they are about expectations, comfort and mutual care – never about anyone’s past.

Every question has a ‘Prefer not to answer’ option, with no penalty. After intimacy come expectations and roles, family and in-laws, finances, and faith and practice.

  • Modest, non-graphic wordingWritten to respect Islamic values of modesty and mutual care.
  • You set the weightFor each topic you say how important it is to you, so a report reflects your priorities.
  • No religious rulingsNikkahNight does not give religious rulings. It is a tool for clarity, not a verdict.
Several matches

One profile, as many matches as you need.

Many people are introduced to more than one person, often through family. You do not have to retake the questionnaire for each one. Your single profile can be linked with everyone you are seriously considering.

  • Each person needs their own profile.
  • Each match has its own report and its own consent.
  • You can add matches one at a time or side by side.
  • Your first match is free; each additional match is €15, paid by the person who asks for it. There is no subscription.
Candidate AOwn profile · consent from both · own reportMatch 1 · Free
Candidate BOwn profile · consent from both · own reportMatch 2 · €15
Candidate COwn profile · consent from both · own reportMatch 3 · €15

Illustration only. Candidate A cannot see that B and C exist, and the other way round. Nobody sees who else you have linked with.

Per-match reports

A report about the two of you – not a score for either of you.

A match report looks at one specific pair. For each topic it shows a level of alignment – for example “strong alignment”, “some differences” or “worth discussing” – and a gentle conversation prompt. It never shows who answered what.

There is no pass or fail. Sometimes a report confirms what you hoped; sometimes it shows you early that you see something differently. That is the point: clarity before you say yes.

  • Intimacy & closeness – firstThe topic given the most room, shown first.
  • Expectations, family, finances, faithThe same level-of-alignment view for each topic.
  • Conversation promptsSuggestions for what to talk about, privately and calmly, before you decide.
  • Weighted by what matters to youTopics you marked as important are highlighted.
A look inside

A sample question and a sample report

An illustration of the format, using an intimacy question. Wording and figures are examples, not real results. In a match report, answers are never attributed to either of you.

Sample question
In the first months of marriage, what pace of physical closeness do you hope for?
How important is this to you?
Sample report preview

Match report – overview

Intimacy & closenessWorth discussing
Expectations & rolesStrong alignment
Family & living arrangementsSome differences
FinancesStrong alignment
Faith & practiceStrong alignment
Conversation prompt: “You each described a different pace for physical closeness in the early months. Neither is wrong. Set aside a calm, private time to talk before the nikkah.”
What it costs

Simple, one-off prices

No subscription. Prices shown in euros, incl. VAT.

Currency
  • Your profilePer person, one-off. 14-day money-back if you haven’t opened your report.€29
  • Your first matchA report for one specific pair. One free match per person.Free
  • Each additional matchA report for one specific pair. Paid by the person who asks for it.€15

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Know where you stand before you say yes.

Private, adab-first and no subscription. Take the questionnaire once, then add a match for each person you are considering.

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