NikkahNight
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Compatibility for Muslims considering marriage

Clarity before you say yes.

One private questionnaire, intimacy first. Link it with the person you’re considering, both of you consenting, and see where you align, where you differ, and what to talk about before you decide.

First match free · 25 to 30 minutes · Modest, non-graphic wording · We don’t introduce anyone
  • Private by designYour answers stay private. Only the pair report is shared, and only if both of you agree.
  • Data you controlDelete your data at any time. Never sold or used for ads.
  • Adab-first questionsPhrased with modesty and respect for Islamic values. No religious rulings.
  • Not a verdictA tool for clarity – it complements istikhara and the conversations you have with family.
What we cover

Five pillars of a marriage – led by the one nobody talks about

Most people discuss faith, family and money before saying yes. Intimacy is the one left to chance – and the one that surprises people most. We give it the most room.

Largest section PILLAR 1

Intimacy & physical closeness

Within marriage, intimacy is a right, a mercy and an act of worship. It is also where unspoken expectations cause the most hurt. We ask about it directly, in modest words, so you can speak about it with adab.

  • Desire, frequency and different needs
  • Affection, modesty and comfort
  • Consent, patience and mutual care
  • Family planning and health
Read how we ask about intimacy →
PILLAR 2

Expectations & roles

Who does what at home, work and career plans, and what “a good spouse” means to each of you.

PILLAR 3

Family & in-laws

Living arrangements, involvement of parents, children and how you raise them.

PILLAR 4

Finances

Mahr, spending and saving habits, debts, and how you will provide and share.

PILLAR 5

Faith & practice

Daily worship, community, and how strongly you each hope to practise over time.

How it works

Profile once. A match for each person.

You take the questionnaire one time. After that, each person you are seriously considering is a separate, consented match – with its own report.

  1. Start your profile

    Take the questionnaire once – 25 to 30 minutes, intimacy first – and mark what matters most to you. €29 per person.

  2. Add a match

    Invite the person you’re considering. They need their own profile, and both of you must consent. Either of you can end the match at any time.

  3. Get a report per match

    Each match gives a compatibility report for that specific pair, intimacy first. Your first match is free; each additional match is €15, paid by the person who asks for it. You can have several matches, one at a time or side by side.

Nobody sees your other matchesNobody sees who else you are linked with – not even the person you are linked with.
Only the pair report is sharedNever your answers – and only once both of you have consented.
You stay in controlA match needs mutual consent, and either side can end it whenever they want.
The heart of NikkahNight

Intimacy, discussed the halal way – before it becomes a problem.

Many people say yes to marriage without ever having discussed what they each expect from physical closeness: how often, how affectionate, how comfortable, how much they know. Silence is often mistaken for modesty, and the gap between two sets of expectations is discovered on the wedding night, or months later.

Our intimacy section names these topics plainly, so you can understand each other’s hopes and worries in a way that respects Islamic values of modesty and mutual care. It does not ask for details of anyone’s past, and nothing in it is graphic.

“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.”Qur’an 30:21 · Sahih International

Your privacy, in plain words

  • Only the pair report is shared, never your answers.
  • A match report shows only a level of alignment and a gentle prompt for that pair – never who answered what.
  • Every question has a ‘Prefer not to answer’ option, with no penalty.

What the section asks about

  • Desire & frequencyWhat you hope for, and what you would do if your needs differ from the other person’s.
  • Affection & comfortTouch, tenderness and what feels comfortable or uncomfortable for you.
  • The early weeksWedding-night expectations, nerves, patience and inexperience.
  • Consent & careCommunicating needs, saying no with kindness, and being heard.
  • Boundaries & valuesWhat each of you considers appropriate, including around menstruation and fasting, and where you may want to seek advice.
  • Family planningTiming of children, contraception and fertility concerns.
  • Health & wellbeingMedical conditions, stress and how you would seek help.
  • Screens & temptationHonest views on pornography and modesty online.

Written with adab. Questions use modest, respectful, non-explicit language, written to respect Islamic values. NikkahNight does not give religious rulings.

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A look inside

Sensitive questions, asked with care. Results shown with context.

An illustration of the format, using an intimacy question – wording and figures below are examples, not real results. In a match report, answers are never attributed to either of you.

Sample question
In the first months of marriage, what pace of physical closeness do you hope for?
How important is this to you?
Sample report preview

Match report – overview

Intimacy & closenessWorth discussing
Expectations & rolesStrong alignment
Family & living arrangementsSome differences
FinancesStrong alignment
Faith & practiceStrong alignment
Conversation prompt: “You each described a different pace for physical closeness in the early months. Neither is wrong. Set aside a calm, private time to talk before the nikkah.”
Pricing

Pay for what you use. Nothing more.

No subscriptions. One profile for you, your first match free, and a small fee for each additional match. Prices shown in euros.

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Your profile

Take the test once, at your own pace.

€29 per person, one-off · incl. VAT
  • Full questionnaire, intimacy section first
  • Priority weighting of what matters most to you
  • Your own profile report
  • Reusable for every match you link
  • 14-day money-back guarantee if you haven’t opened your report
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Matches

A compatibility report for one specific pair. Your first match is free.

Free your first match

then €15 incl. VAT per additional match, paid by the person who asks for it

  • Link your profile with the person you’re considering, who needs their own profile
  • Both of you must consent; either can end the match
  • Nobody sees who else you are linked with
  • Add as many matches as you like – each one has its own report
Add your first match, free

Buying together? The couple bundle is €49 incl. VAT instead of €58 (save €9). It includes two profiles, a report for each of you and one free match between you. Each of you creates your own account and gives your own consent; the person paying can’t consent for the other. See the couple bundle

Our promise: 14-day money-back guarantee on your profile if you haven’t opened your report · Secure payment via Paddle · Prices in euros, incl. VAT

Stories

What people say

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Questions

Good to know

Can I use NikkahNight with a clear conscience?

NikkahNight is written with adab: modest, non-graphic questions about expectations within marriage, with no matchmaking, no private chat and no introductions between strangers. We don’t give religious rulings. If you have a religious question, talk to someone you trust.

Are the intimacy questions explicit?

No. They’re written in modest, non-graphic language and are about expectations, comfort and mutual care, never about anyone’s past or physical details. Every question has a ‘Prefer not to answer’ option.

I feel shy or inexperienced. Is this for me?

Yes, very much so. Many people feel the same, which is exactly why these topics often go undiscussed. You answer privately, at your own pace, and nobody sees your answers. The report only gives the two of you a gentle starting point for a conversation.

Why does intimacy get so much room?

Because it’s the topic people most often leave undiscussed, and the one where unspoken expectations hurt the most. Faith, family and finances matter just as much, but they usually do get talked about.

Can I link with more than one person?

Yes. One profile can be linked with everyone you’re seriously considering. Each match has its own report and its own consent, and each person needs their own profile.

Who sees my answers?

Only you. The person you link with never sees your answers, and you never see theirs. You each see the pair report, and only once both of you have agreed to the link.

How is my data protected?

Your answers are encrypted, never sold and never used for advertising. You can delete your data at any time. Your data is stored in the EU and deleted 12 months after your last activity. You can ask us to delete your account and data sooner at any time. Payment records and invoices are kept separately for 7 years, as tax law requires. We never share user data with partners, and any affiliate or paid partnership is clearly labelled as advertising.

What does it cost, and is there a refund?

Your profile is €29, once, per person. Your first match is free and each additional match is €15. No subscription, and prices are shown for your region (incl. VAT). Refund: within 14 days for your profile, as long as you haven’t opened your report. For an extra match, you get your €15 back within 14 days if you haven’t opened its report, or if the other person doesn’t accept within 30 days.

What if a match doesn’t look good?

There’s no pass or fail. Sometimes a report confirms what you hoped; sometimes it shows you early that you see things differently. That’s exactly the clarity you came for.

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Know where you stand before you say yes.

Private, adab-first and no subscription. Take the questionnaire once, then add a match for each person you are considering – each report arrives once both of you have consented and finished.

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