Expectations of marriage
What a supportive marriage looks like to each of you, and what you hope to build together.
Marriage preparation for Muslim couples
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First couple report included free · About 25 to 30 minutes · 18+
Clarity before you say yes.
Prepare for nikkah with the partner you already know. Each of you completes a private questionnaire, then you both consent to a couple report that shows where your expectations align and what to talk about together.
Payments are not available yet. In the meantime, see the sample report and how it works.
A marriage-preparation course for couples who already know each other. We do not introduce people.
- Private by design. Your answers stay private. Only the couple report is shared, and only with both partners’ consent.
- Data you control. Delete your data or withdraw consent at any time. Your answers are never sold or used for advertising.
- Written with adab. Respectful questions about expectations in marriage. Every question has a “Prefer not to answer” option.
- A starting point, not a verdict. A report helps you talk. It does not tell you whether to marry or replace istikhara and conversations with people you trust.
What we cover
Seven themes for the life you are preparing to share.
54 questions about everyday expectations, shared values and mutual care in marriage. Answer privately and mark what matters most to you.
Communication
How you listen, express concerns and work through disagreements.
Faith practice
Your day-to-day faith, shared routines and hopes for your home.
Family
Family involvement, living arrangements and hopes for family life.
Finances
Spending, saving, wedding costs and how you plan to manage money together.
Roles and responsibilities
How you picture sharing responsibilities at home, at work and in family life.
Closeness and affection in marriage
Your expectations of kindness, comfort and mutual care, approached with adab.
How it works
Your answers. Your partner. A conversation worth having.
NikkahNight is for two people who already know each other and are preparing for nikkah together.
Complete your questionnaire.
Create your own account and answer 54 questions in 7 themes. It takes about 25 to 30 minutes, and you can save and return later. Your profile is €29 per person.
Invite your partner.
Your partner needs their own profile and gives their own consent. Paying for someone’s profile does not give consent on their behalf.
Explore your couple report.
Once you have both consented and finished, your first couple report is included free. It highlights shared expectations, differences and conversation prompts, never each other’s answers.
Separate accounts. Each partner answers independently.
Shared report only. Individual answers are never shown to your partner.
Consent stays yours. Either of you can stop sharing at any time.
A look inside
A simple question. A more thoughtful conversation.
An illustration of the format, not real answers or results. Your couple report never identifies who chose which answer.
Sample question
How important is this to you?
1 — Not very important · 3 — Moderately important · 5 — Very important
Sample report preview
Couple report — overview
Expectations of marriageClosely aligned
CommunicationWorth a longer talk
Faith practiceClosely aligned
FamilySome differences
FinancesClosely aligned
Roles and responsibilitiesSome differences
Closeness and affection in marriageClosely aligned
Conversation prompt: You described different ways of returning to a difficult conversation. Agree how either of you can ask for a pause, and when you will come back to listen.
Illustrative summaries, not a prediction or a decision about your marriage.
Pricing
Prepare together. Pay once.
No subscription. Start with a private profile each, or choose the couple bundle. Your first couple report is included free. Prices shown in euros.
Currency
Your profile
Your private marriage-preparation questionnaire and personal report.
€29 per person, one-off · incl. VAT
- 54 questions in 7 themes
- About 25 to 30 minutes, with save and return
- Your personal report, visible only to you
- Mark what matters most to you
- Your first couple report included free
- Your answers stay private
Refund within 14 days if you have not opened your report.
Payments are not available yet. In the meantime, see the sample report and how it works.
Your first couple report
A shared starting point for conversations with your partner as you prepare for nikkah.
Free with your profiles
- Both partners need their own profile
- Available after you have both finished and consented
- Theme summaries and conversation prompts
- Never each other’s individual answers
- Either partner can stop sharing at any time
Payments are not available yet. In the meantime, see the sample report and how it works.
Couple bundle
Two private profiles, a personal report each and your first couple report together.
€49 one-off · incl. VAT
Instead of €58 for two separate profiles — save €9.
- One questionnaire and personal report per partner
- Your first couple report included free
- Separate accounts and separate consent
- The payer shares a private bundle link with their partner
Buying for your partner does not give consent on their behalf.
Within 14 days: a full refund if neither report has been opened; if one has, the value of the unopened profile is refunded.
Payments are not available yet. In the meantime, see the sample report and how it works.
A fresh start
New couple report
Starting fresh with a new partner? Unlink your previous report first.
Only one link can be active per person. Both partners give fresh consent before a new couple report is shared.
- Your first couple report is included free with your profiles
- Stop sharing your previous report before creating a new link
- Only one link can be active per person
- Both partners need a profile and give their own consent
- The person requesting the paid new report pays; accepting it has no extra charge
Stopping the previous link removes access to its shared report for both of you. Your personal report remains private to you.
Refund within 14 days if you have not opened its report. If your partner does not accept, the invitation ends after 14 days and you are refunded automatically.
€15
incl. VAT
per new report, one-off
Payments are not available yet. In the meantime, see the sample report and how it works.
If you already have an active link, stop sharing your current report first. That step asks you to confirm. It does not delete your personal report.
14-day refund on your profile if you have not opened your report · Secure payment via Paddle · incl. VAT
What couples might discover
Two people can both take money seriously and still expect very different things from a shared budget. One may want every expense decided together; the other may prefer separate pots plus a joint contribution. Naming that early turns a vague worry into a concrete conversation.
Topic · Finances
Living near parents, or with them for a while, can feel like care to one person and a loss of privacy to the other. Talking through how often visits happen, who decides, and what “close to family” means day to day helps both of you see that gap before habits form.
Topic · Family & living arrangements
Who handles the home, whose career bends first, and how disagreements get aired are easy to leave unspoken. Naming those expectations side by side makes it clearer what still needs a calm conversation before you decide.
Topic · Roles & communication
Questions
Good to know
What is NikkahNight, and who is it for?
NikkahNight is an educational marriage-preparation questionnaire and report for Muslim couples aged 18 and over who already know each other and are preparing for nikkah. You each answer privately, then choose whether to share a couple report that helps you discuss expectations for married life.
Does NikkahNight introduce people?
No. NikkahNight does not find a partner, suggest people, introduce strangers or offer chat. You use it with the partner you already know and are preparing to marry.
What will the questions be like?
The questionnaire has 54 multiple-choice questions in 7 themes: expectations of marriage, communication, faith practice, family, finances, roles and responsibilities, and closeness and affection in marriage. The wording is modest and respectful. It does not ask for details of anyone’s past. Every question has a “Prefer not to answer” option, with no penalty.
Who sees my answers?
Your individual answers and personal report are private to your account. Your partner never sees your individual answers, and you never see theirs. Only the couple report is shared, after you have both given separate consent and completed the questionnaire.
Do we both need a profile?
Yes. You and your partner each need your own account and profile, or one profile each through the couple bundle. You complete the questionnaire independently and give your own consent before the couple report is available.
Is our first couple report really free?
Yes. Your first couple report together is included at no extra charge once both of you have a profile, have finished the questionnaire and have consented. It is also included in the couple bundle. “Free” refers to the couple report, not the two profiles.
What does it cost?
Your profile is €29 per person, as a one-off payment. It includes the questionnaire and your personal report. Your first couple report is included free once both partners have profiles. The couple bundle is €49 for two profiles. A paid new couple report is €15, after ending the previous link. No subscription. Prices are shown for your region: incl. VAT.
Is there a refund?
For your profile, you can request a refund within 14 days of purchase if you have not opened your report. For the couple bundle, within 14 days we refund it in full if neither report has been opened; if one has, we refund the value of the unopened profile. For a paid new couple report, you can request a refund within 14 days if you have not opened its report. If your partner does not accept, the invitation ends after 14 days and you are refunded automatically. See the approved refund policy for full details and your statutory rights.
Make room for the conversations that matter.
Prepare for nikkah with the partner you already know. Private answers, a shared couple report and a clearer place to begin.
Payments are not available yet. In the meantime, see the sample report and how it works.